My best girlfriend and I spend a lot of time together even though we both have partners. We got into an interesting conversation about masturbation and watching erotic movies. We both enjoy doing this. Then she suggested that we watch and play at the same time with no touching each other.
The conversation then went to would this be cheating. We have a different opinion about this.
My question is would you consider this cheating.
If you both would do it in front of your partners, then no. But if your keeping it from them ya. And would you be ok with your partner doing the same with their best friend!!!!!!
It would depend on the "terms engagement" you each have in your relationship with your partners.
I viewed the replys ladies and to me it's still cheating its sharing with someone else a leve of intimacy that unless agreed upon by your partner that is crossing a line even with out touch. After all if I preform sexual favors on someone else but don't let them, does that mean they are the only one cheating?
No, I do not. You're not even touching each other, just having fun. Honestly, I don't know how you keep your hands off each other. I am so turned on just reading this. Get back to me and let me know what happens.
My partner thinks that masturbating and watching porn by myself is cheating. I dont agree and do it anyway.
Does anyone else think this is cheating?
I personally don't see doing a solo, as cheating if your partner is unable to satisfy you for a spell. If it offends the partner, I wouldn't do it. It can help keep you from walking out if you have a partner that withholds intimacy from you to control the relationship. I prefer intimacy and giving pleasure, so solo acts are not my preference. Porn helps some but, there really isn't beauty in most porn it's dry and prepacked regardless of the talent, premise or scenario, plus the music is stale.
Thank you for your comments. I think so far most think it would not be cheating. I am still not sure.
Now we are talking about web cam to web cam. Do you think that would be cheating.
To be perfectly honest with you I personally would not engage in such behavior, even if my partner was in agreement. Some may call me a prude, but I am pretty old school when it comes to 'sharing' myself with others. To each their own of course, but this definitely would not be for me :-)
My partner and I think it is cheating; if you have a partner you should be faithful to them. Being with someone else watching an erotic flick and masturbating crosses that line.