how are you all doing?
i have a question that needs some clarification within my mind..
i have commented on a discussion pertaining to bisexuality being a trend and i have commented on a discussion pertaining to the shemale and how supposed judgemental lesbians are..
i'm confused here and i need some clarification if you can help..
i am a lesbian..
always have been..
never done men..
always just women..
that's just the way i role.
a black and white kinda chic with no room for inbetween..
an apple is an apple..a tree is a tree..the water is water and so forth..
now you can describe the above analogies, give it color, derivatives maybe..but you cannot change the true essence of what they truly are..deep down inside to the core of it all, the apple, the tree, the water is truly just that.
i was raised roman catholic..strict roman catholic with certain morals and values instilled within me when i was younger..
needless to say, i didn't follow them..
That i believe in God..a supreme being more powerful than myself and one day i have to explain my existance to him, what i did with my life when i die..
i believe that he wants me to learn about love, for isn't God all about love?
he didn't say just whom i had to love.
now if you're in a heterosexual relationship and you would rather be with sally than joe, why would you stay if you are not happy?
you only have 1 life to live, so why live in misery?
i don't understand how people can be bisexual..
i don't understand how people can be transvestites..
i certainly don't understand how people can opt to change the body that God gave them..
to man made for me to comprehend.
how can one call themselves bisexual?
deep down inside it is not just choices you are making with no true decision?
is it a fear of commitment?
i do not mean to offend anyone..
you live your life the way you choose.
just asking questions here.
now the changing of your anatomy..
either becoming a man, or half of a man and half of a woman and truly being content..
is it truly running away, trying to create a happiness you want..
but what do you want?
do your emotions come into play?
why would you change your body like changing parts on a car?
homesexuality exists from what i understand in the animal kingdom..
scientists have stated that we are all born with 10% homosexuality within us, and from what i'm told, 1 in every five women or men is gay, whether closeted or out.
why then with humans it is taboo to be considered gay?
some say being gay is a choice..
it is a choice i have made with my life..
now the God factor..
some say religion will save you,
return you to a heterosexual way of living.
i think of matthew shepperd here and brandon tina..
i'm sure they wanted their lives to end the way that they had..
i need clarification here..
complexity at it's finest..
give it a whirl..
help me to understand and try to change my point of view..
thanx for reading..
have an awesome night/day..whenever you take a looksee at this..
It is a tragedy that some people's judgment persecute those of another kind. Some people love pine tress, some Hickory. Some people love Golden Delicious apples, some like Rome Beauty. Some people love females, some love males, and some can even love both! To be happy and satisfied you must live the life that best suits you, and be strong to withstand the condemnation of those who are not liking the same as you.
I AGREE AT ALL.