lesbian..bisexual..transvestite..shemale..transgendered..so forth..

hiya ladies..

how are you all doing?

i have a question that needs some clarification within my mind..


here goes..


i have commented on a discussion pertaining to bisexuality being a trend and i have commented on a discussion pertaining to the shemale and how supposed judgemental lesbians are..

i'm confused here and i need some clarification if you can help..


i am a lesbian..

always have been..

never done men..

won't ever..

always just women..

that's just the way i role.

a black and white kinda chic with no room for inbetween..


an apple is an apple..a tree is a tree..the water is water and so forth..

now you can describe the above analogies, give it color, derivatives maybe..but you cannot change the true essence of what they truly are..deep down inside to the core of it all, the apple, the tree, the water is truly just that.


i was raised roman catholic..strict roman catholic with certain morals and values instilled within me when i was younger..

needless to say, i didn't follow them..

only one..

That i believe in God..a supreme being more powerful than myself and one day i have to explain my existance to him, what i did with my life when i die..

i believe that he wants me to learn about love, for isn't God all about love?


he didn't say just whom i had to love.


now if you're in a heterosexual relationship and you would rather be with sally than joe, why would you stay if you are not happy?

you only have 1 life to live, so why live in misery?


i don't understand how people can be bisexual..

i don't understand how people can be transvestites..


i certainly don't understand how people can opt to change the body that God gave them..

to scientific..

to man made for me to comprehend.


how can one call themselves bisexual?

deep down inside it is not just choices you are making with no true decision?

is it a fear of commitment?

i do not mean to offend anyone..

you live your life the way you choose.

just asking questions here.


now the changing of your anatomy..

either becoming a man, or half of a man and half of a woman and truly being content..

is it truly running away, trying to create a happiness you want..

but what do you want?

do your emotions come into play?

why would you change your body like changing parts on a car?



homesexuality exists from what i understand in the animal kingdom..

always has..


scientists have stated that we are all born with 10% homosexuality within us, and from what i'm told, 1 in every five women or men is gay, whether closeted or out.

why then with humans it is taboo to be considered gay?


some say being gay is a choice..

it is a choice i have made with my life..

now the God factor..

some say religion will save you,

return you to a heterosexual way of living.

i think of matthew shepperd here and brandon tina..

i'm sure they wanted their lives to end the way that they had..




i need clarification here..

complexity at it's finest..

give it a whirl..

help me to understand and try to change my point of view..


thanx for reading..

have an awesome night/day..whenever you take a looksee at this..



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A state of mass confusion and serious contradiction in terms.  Perhaps the short answer here is that like the apple is an apple; some people like only apples.  Some people like apples and oranges.

Even though apples and oranges aren't the same thing they are still fruit.  Bisexual.  If you like sex and most people do even though they don't always admit this, sexuality is part of the HUMAN condition.  Not yelling there, just emphasizing.  I've been bisexual all my life.  I'm now 56.  I am however as I have stated previously had better and more intimate sex with women.  But I also like sex with men on occasion.  I have 5 grown children so if that was a requirement I have fulfilled it.  And amazingly enough I am closest to my oldest son who is gay.

One of my closet friends is a transvestite as well as a shemale.  She is a showgirl by profession so being a transvestite is helpful.  In my opinion, being a transvestite is a way of dealing with the cards one is dealt at birth.  Not all transvestites are shemales or vice versa.  But here it is definitely all about the comfort level and defining who you are.  Your identity.  A case of Cody and Katy are actually one and the same.  Some of it is a mindset.

As far as the "sally and joe" scenario above, you would be truly amazed at what people do and trust me they aren't miserable.  If you would rather be with someone else and trust me your partner would to from time to time unless they aren't human, then you find what you are looking for elsewhere and what you usually can't get from your partner.  I have a legal marriage but an open relationship and its working for now.  If it stops working I will go and reinvent my life again even at 56.

Perhaps the best way to diffuse this down and examine it is simple, not all of us like the same music, but how many kinds of music are there?  Everyone has their own taste in music and what works for me probably wouldn't be your cup of tea.  But I won't say you are wrong and being a gay and lesbian activist with the scars and so forth to show for it; do what you know in your own heart what you are comfortable with and the rest of it will fall into place.  Be yourself and bath in the glow of knowledge that you are you and you are a beautiful human being.  Have a wonderful day!

This is a real education for me and I hope everyone reads this. Angela, Angie_lv, Hank and Liz Henry and sleeplesNseattle for starting the conversation thank you!

I guess this should be called alternate life styles and sexuality 101 right...
for me just seems common sense.
I am just amazed how long this gone on and has taken new life,
even thou Sleepless who have asked for information refuse to continue it.
I am kinda glad because the more talking and discussion the more understanding it brings.
That is whats needed. Needed in all forums world wide.
After all we are all people we all want same things.
Quiet life safe from harm good to raise kids in, work and enjoy our life in peace.
For me being lesbian is difficult enough even though here we are legal still a lot people don't except. To be trans far more difficult. I salute all going threw their struggle.

Hi everyone
Angie_lv have left Puddy Girl her wife heart condition has worsen,
and she moved to your State Florida. In hope of better medical there.
I certainly understand heart conditions, I have one myself as a lot here know.
I have since lost touch and no more information on her.

This is the most interesting discussion I have read in a long long time. Where is sleeplesNseattle did you finally go to sleep?

I identify myself as bisexual because I do not have a sexual preference....I like to have sex with men and women!!! My main thing is who you can love...sex is just sex, and I don't claim this goes for everyone, but for me in my lifetime, I believe in love....I have been in love and in long-term relationships with men and women. IDK if that helps you understand? But I also have a very dear friend, she is a lesbian, who would get so pissed off at me if I dated a man...she was a firm believer in you are either gay or straight, no in between...so I suppose its just up to the individual...she had no attraction to men either, so she didn't understand...

I read all of your replies and all I have to say is wow the church has the power to brain wash people. Sleeples how can you rationalize being a Lesbian is between you and God but no one except you has that special privilege. I know you ran away when you were forced to analyze your beliefs but I would really like to hear your explanation. You don't need to discuss your religious beliefs to explain your logic.

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Etymology / Definition of Masturbation The word masturbation is derived from the Greek word mezea ('penises') and the Latin verb masturbare ('to defile by hand or to disturb by hand'). Masturbation can be defined as deliberate self stimulation of ones genitals. As the etymology of the word suggests, hands are generally used to arouse the sexual organs which may result in orgasm. Men may fondle or stroke their penis with their hand or touch other erroneous zones (like the scrotum or anus). Women often rub the vulva, or gently stroke the clitoris and the minor lips (labia minora). Some women simultaneously play with the nipples of their breasts. Instead of using their hands, both males and females may also rub their genitals against some object, such as a pillow. Some females can reach orgasm by riding a bicycle or a horse. Masturbation commonly refers to sexual activities done alone (autoeroticism), but can be a sexual act between people. This is referred to as mutual masturbation, where one person stimulates their own genitals or their partners. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic. visit ifeelmyself.com


There are many special masturbation aids on the market. The most common of these is the artificial penis, also known as a dildo (from the Italian diletto - "delight"). Dildos can be made of wood, rubber, plastic or glass. Vibrators are also popular sex toys. They are like dildos, but battery powered or electric. Great for masturbation as well as partner sex play. Babeland have a great selection of sex toys. Watching pornography, reading erotica or cultivating sexual fantasies are common aids to masturbate. Humans are not the only animals to masturbate. Many other mammals have been known to masturbate in the wild and in captivity. Female Masturbation Techniques There are many different techniques women may employ to masturbate. Through experimentation, a personal preference may be found which gives that particular woman the most exquisite pleasure. Some common techniques are: *Inserting one or more fingers into the vagina to stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. * Stroking the clitoris and / or massaging the breasts. * In the bathtub or shower, using warm running water to stimulate the clitoris. * Lying face down and straddling a pillow (or something similar) and rubbing the vulva and clitoris against it. * Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the genitals. * Some women can orgasm by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the pelvic or leg muscles, which creates pressure and enhances blood flow to the genitals. Techniques, Sexual Response & Multiple Orgasms From the website: 'Women commonly masturbate by rubbing or applying pressure to the clitoris, mons, lips of the vagina, or some combination of these areas. The methods by which they do this varies greatly. Fingers or other devices may be used to rub the shaft of the clitoris in an up-and-down motion on either or both sides, or the shaft may be rubbed in a circular fashion. The vaginal lips may be gently pulled; this movement of the inner lips causes the loose skin covering the clitoris to move back and forth, creating a pleasurable sensation. Because the glans of the clitoris is highly sensitive, prolonged stimulation usually becomes irritating, and thus it is not often used as the focus of masturbation. Relatively few women (some sexologists estimate about 20%) insert anything into their vaginas while masturbating. Those who do usually insert just barely into the opening. However, some women completely insert fingers, dildos, vibrators, and other objects, such as bananas and cucumbers, during masturbation. All these methods may involve the use of various kinds of lubricants, and many women stimulate their breasts while stimulating their genitals. Some women use washcloths, clothing, pillows, furs, silks, or other such devices to aid their stimulation. Most women prefer lying on their backs, but some prefer standing or sitting. While standing or sitting, a woman may rub against certain objects, such as doorknobs, dresser drawer pulls, the edge of chairs, or bedposts. The woman may cross her legs and increase the pressure on her genitals by contracting her lower abdominal, gluteal, and thigh muscles. Water massages may be used. Some women derive sexual stimulation while riding a bicycle or a horse, activities that were at one time forbidden to women for that very reason. Female sexual response to masturbation is about the same as for males. Some women have reported orgasm 30 seconds from the start of self-stimulation, while the usual time is a little less than four minutes. Because of a woman's ability to have multiple orgasms, she may maintain her threshold of orgasm far longer than a man. ... When mutual masturbation is employed during intercourse, it may greatly enhance sexual response; some women report that they receive more intense pleasure from masturbation either by themselves or by their partner than they do from coitus, especially if their partner is a male who has only slight potency. This is because the clitoris receives little direct stimulation during pelvic thrusting in the missionary position.'



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Definition of Sexual Fetish
First described by Sigmund Freud in 1887, sexual fetishism is a form of paraphilia where the object of affection is a specific inanimate object. 

A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a 'foot fetish'. That is called a partialism. This is when a part of the body is an extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe though, could be a fetish.

A fetish is when a person is sexually aroused by a specific object or objects and is generally unable to achieve sexual satisfaction without that object being present.

What makes a fetish 'fetishism' by definition is that it interferes with your life. It's not just something you like to do, but something you have to do. In other words, there is no other way to have an orgasm except with a shoe, bra or panties present, or whatever that person is into.


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