Secret Box : I'm a lesbian and met a beautiful girl online and now I think she is really a boy... You never know who you are talking to online. Chat on site before you decide to give out your personal email or IM information and even then you don't know who you are talking to. Watch for the way they write most of you know when you are talking to a woman or a man keep the dialog flowing. If Im interested and we have been talking for a little while. I ask them to describe in detail how their vagina feels when they cum. It might sound silly but only a woman would know that answer. I had someone send me a paragraph from a medical site before. All he wanted to do was slap my ass and beet my clit off no woman talks like that! If you get to the point where you want to really know them better find out if they will talk on the phone if they don't want to talk on the phone chances are they arent the person they say they are. If u use web cam keep in mind that they can sell your video to any online porn site. Wouldnt you feel strange having your boss watching you do your personal best???? Happy hunting, there are some keepers out there. Just keep these things in mind and stay on site until you feel its time to move forward.
Really, there are people who can fake anything. The only true test is to meet them in person, in public, asking her to wear a dress or skirt. If they pass that test, you can be 98% sure. But, if you want to make it 100%, ask if you can briefly feel between their legs under the table. If they pass that test with woman fixtures, they HAVE to be female! You have every right to be sure. Wouldn't you do the same for a woman who wanted to be sure you were a woman to really have you for a friend, lover, or playmate?
I disagree with your "under-the-table-test". A person can identify as any gender regardless of what's between their legs. Myself, I've identified as female most of my life but I am a trans girl and I am pre-op - which doesn't make me any less of a woman.
on line you can start conversing and bring up dialogue only lesbians know - example: you can ask them if they are a pillow queen, a fem dyke... you will know right away if they are a lesbian and/or a jerk trying to come across as one. . .
Secret Box : Ok , I am going to keep it short this time. My problem......I am a 24 year old virgin. I know right, in this day and age, in the US of all places , a virgin over 18! I am VERY cute, so that is not the problem. I have this wall in front of me and I don't know how to break it down. I think about sex constantly, and I get hit on by men and women alike. I just freeze up, I never know what to say or do to let them know I am interested, not just for sex, but for dating or whatever may come. I know a lot of people who regret having sex with most of the people they've sept with and I dont want to be like that, and I know too many of my friends who have gotten into situations that they would rather have avoided becuase of sex, and I have let those situations and lessons they have learned scare me into this state of fear. What am I to do? I don't know how to get over this by myself, and everyone in my personal life that knows my situation tell me its a good thing that I am still a VIRGIN at 24, but it makes me feel as if I will be alone forever with I house full of cats.....I hate cats!!!!
The only true concerns about having sex is pregnancy and veneral disease. The first is easily tested for and prevented these days. The second requires a more caution and selection of partners. Otherwise, go out and go for it. You'll be glad you did, and get rid of "virgin over 18" label.
though you may feel your too old to be a virgin. . . your still young. . . it will happen for you - hopefully, it will be with the right person. . . don't sweat on it constantly. . .just let it flow and it will happen. . . 24 is still so young. . .
Secret Box : I'm divorced now and I am a 100% lesbian but when I was first married, I stayed with my mother-in-law alot during the evenings...she is 21 years older than me but totally HOT! One evening she began to kiss me and it just kept getting more and more stronger...then she unbuttoned my blouse and began sucking my breasts like I've never been sucked before. It ended up that we were 69ing in the middle of her living room floor. She has an incredible tongue! Next thing I knew she had this strap on dildo and started to fuck the hell out of me....Best lovemaking that I ever had! She touched me and made me feel like a total woman...enough said I've been a lesbian ever since....No man can compare to a woman's touch!
agree totally -- no man can compare to a woman's touch and/or love making... no way ... no how... i some times look at straight woman with their husbands and say to myself. . . if only they knew the touch of a woman - they are missing so much. . .
Secret Box : Write your Secret or Confession here. ear is what keeps me from coming out. I had my first expierence with a girl two years ago, and since then I've been with a few girls, but never actually 'dating'. I'm afraid of how my family will react since they always talk negatively about my gay guy friend.. and well for my friends. Fuck them, if they can't except me then their loss. I am just so nervous for the family to know.
Etymology / Definition of Masturbation The word masturbation is derived from the Greek word mezea ('penises') and the Latin verb masturbare ('to defile by hand or to disturb by hand'). Masturbation can be defined as deliberate self stimulation of ones genitals. As the etymology of the word suggests, hands are generally used to arouse the sexual organs which may result in orgasm. Men may fondle or stroke their penis with their hand or touch other erroneous zones (like the scrotum or anus). Women often rub the vulva, or gently stroke the clitoris and the minor lips (labia minora). Some women simultaneously play with the nipples of their breasts. Instead of using their hands, both males and females may also rub their genitals against some object, such as a pillow. Some females can reach orgasm by riding a bicycle or a horse. Masturbation commonly refers to sexual activities done alone (autoeroticism), but can be a sexual act between people. This is referred to as mutual masturbation, where one person stimulates their own genitals or their partners. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic.
There are many special masturbation aids on the market. The most common of these is the artificial penis, also known as a dildo (from the Italian diletto - "delight"). Dildos can be made of wood, rubber, plastic or glass. Vibrators are also popular sex toys. They are like dildos, but battery powered or electric. Great for masturbation as well as partner sex play. Babeland have a great selection of sex toys. Watching pornography, reading erotica or cultivating sexual fantasies are common aids to masturbate. Humans are not the only animals to masturbate. Many other mammals have been known to masturbate in the wild and in captivity. Female Masturbation Techniques There are many different techniques women may employ to masturbate. Through experimentation, a personal preference may be found which gives that particular woman the most exquisite pleasure. Some common techniques are: *Inserting one or more fingers into the vagina to stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. * Stroking the clitoris and / or massaging the breasts. * In the bathtub or shower, using warm running water to stimulate the clitoris. * Lying face down and straddling a pillow (or something similar) and rubbing the vulva and clitoris against it. * Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the genitals. * Some women can orgasm by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the pelvic or leg muscles, which creates pressure and enhances blood flow to the genitals. Techniques, Sexual Response & Multiple Orgasms From the website: 'Women commonly masturbate by rubbing or applying pressure to the clitoris, mons, lips of the vagina, or some combination of these areas. The methods by which they do this varies greatly. Fingers or other devices may be used to rub the shaft of the clitoris in an up-and-down motion on either or both sides, or the shaft may be rubbed in a circular fashion. The vaginal lips may be gently pulled; this movement of the inner lips causes the loose skin covering the clitoris to move back and forth, creating a pleasurable sensation. Because the glans of the clitoris is highly sensitive, prolonged stimulation usually becomes irritating, and thus it is not often used as the focus of masturbation. Relatively few women (some sexologists estimate about 20%) insert anything into their vaginas while masturbating. Those who do usually insert just barely into the opening. However, some women completely insert fingers, dildos, vibrators, and other objects, such as bananas and cucumbers, during masturbation. All these methods may involve the use of various kinds of lubricants, and many women stimulate their breasts while stimulating their genitals. Some women use washcloths, clothing, pillows, furs, silks, or other such devices to aid their stimulation. Most women prefer lying on their backs, but some prefer standing or sitting. While standing or sitting, a woman may rub against certain objects, such as doorknobs, dresser drawer pulls, the edge of chairs, or bedposts. The woman may cross her legs and increase the pressure on her genitals by contracting her lower abdominal, gluteal, and thigh muscles. Water massages may be used. Some women derive sexual stimulation while riding a bicycle or a horse, activities that were at one time forbidden to women for that very reason. Female sexual response to masturbation is about the same as for males. Some women have reported orgasm 30 seconds from the start of self-stimulation, while the usual time is a little less than four minutes. Because of a woman's ability to have multiple orgasms, she may maintain her threshold of orgasm far longer than a man. ... When mutual masturbation is employed during intercourse, it may greatly enhance sexual response; some women report that they receive more intense pleasure from masturbation either by themselves or by their partner than they do from coitus, especially if their partner is a male who has only slight potency. This is because the clitoris receives little direct stimulation during pelvic thrusting in the missionary position.'
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Definition of Sexual Fetish
First described by Sigmund Freud in 1887, sexual fetishism is a form of paraphilia where the object of affection is a specific inanimate object.
A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a 'foot fetish'. That is called a partialism. This is when a part of the body is an extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe though, could be a fetish.
A fetish is when a person is sexually aroused by a specific object or objects and is generally unable to achieve sexual satisfaction without that object being present.
What makes a fetish 'fetishism' by definition is that it interferes with your life. It's not just something you like to do, but something you have to do. In other words, there is no other way to have an orgasm except with a shoe, bra or panties present, or whatever that person is into.