Single Again..

Single again ouch.. Where to start.. How to trust again??

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The traditional way to meet others is quickly being replaced by Internet dating, meeting in chatrooms, and contacting prospective lovers using singles search sites.
Not so long ago, those seeking someone special hoped for one of those experiences where they would look across a crowded room, see a stranger, and fall in love at first sight. Now, they review singles site profiles and use e-mail to contact those who best match the kind of person for whom they are looking.
The Internet has literally revolutionized how people meet and it is fast becoming the only way to go. In this fast paced world we live in, meeting others via virtual space has become the way.

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Becoming physical again

Started by GTW-TQOH. Last reply by Angela Oct 20, 2011. 6 Replies

I have find it challenging to be intimate again. I want it, but I become nervous and overly self-conscious. I was in a 15 year relationship with a femme that was very assertive.We switched roles…Continue

Valentines Day

Started by Crystal. Last reply by Teddy Feb 13, 2011. 7 Replies


Getting involved again, but can I?

Started by Mary. Last reply by Crystal Oct 22, 2010. 13 Replies

I am in need of some advice here.  I have been in this on again off again romance with a woman I love very much. Its been rocky because in the middle of it all I dealt with my sexuality and came…Continue

Break Up From Death?

Started by Angela. Last reply by Crystal Oct 20, 2010. 5 Replies

Well, I am not single in a nice lesbian relationship right now. But, I remember the painful time i had till I found my recent love. There so much I would say on this but, then I would need her…Continue

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Comment by PuddyGirl on February 22, 2016 at 3:28pm

Being Single quote

Comment by Samantha on February 6, 2016 at 7:35am

PuddyGirls Kissing

Comment by Angel on September 27, 2012 at 4:01pm

hey all im still here missing you all been really busy but i have enjoyed reading posts

hugs love you all

Comment by Sissy on September 14, 2012 at 4:52pm

So, here I am single again, and loving every minute of it! The moment I ended my relationship, I felt a rush of positive energy envelope me. I know, REALLY know, that now my life will be back on track. I understand fully what NOT to look for in someone else, if I ever decide to try for another relationship.... God has blessed me, kept me safe through some terrible moments, and is guiding me into brighter days ahead!

Comment by Crystal on January 2, 2012 at 9:11pm

Comment by Annabellle on January 6, 2011 at 7:48am
thanks for all, i's useful for me to read all these discussions, i hope i will find my way
Comment by Mary on January 6, 2011 at 7:37am
Paigue,  Ive been single now for awhile, and I am comfortable with it.  I recently read the book called The Secret, and its very helpful as to how to draw the right person to you.  Im just trying to live in a more positive way, my last ex brought so much negativity I just don;t want to go there again.
Comment by Annabellle on January 6, 2011 at 7:09am
you are more lucky than me, i'm all time single,
Comment by Samantha on October 22, 2010 at 9:04pm
Rae if you are a fish I want to swim in your pond>
Comment by PuddyGirl on July 30, 2010 at 3:12pm


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Etymology / Definition of Masturbation The word masturbation is derived from the Greek word mezea ('penises') and the Latin verb masturbare ('to defile by hand or to disturb by hand'). Masturbation can be defined as deliberate self stimulation of ones genitals. As the etymology of the word suggests, hands are generally used to arouse the sexual organs which may result in orgasm. Men may fondle or stroke their penis with their hand or touch other erroneous zones (like the scrotum or anus). Women often rub the vulva, or gently stroke the clitoris and the minor lips (labia minora). Some women simultaneously play with the nipples of their breasts. Instead of using their hands, both males and females may also rub their genitals against some object, such as a pillow. Some females can reach orgasm by riding a bicycle or a horse. Masturbation commonly refers to sexual activities done alone (autoeroticism), but can be a sexual act between people. This is referred to as mutual masturbation, where one person stimulates their own genitals or their partners. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic. visit


There are many special masturbation aids on the market. The most common of these is the artificial penis, also known as a dildo (from the Italian diletto - "delight"). Dildos can be made of wood, rubber, plastic or glass. Vibrators are also popular sex toys. They are like dildos, but battery powered or electric. Great for masturbation as well as partner sex play. Babeland have a great selection of sex toys. Watching pornography, reading erotica or cultivating sexual fantasies are common aids to masturbate. Humans are not the only animals to masturbate. Many other mammals have been known to masturbate in the wild and in captivity. Female Masturbation Techniques There are many different techniques women may employ to masturbate. Through experimentation, a personal preference may be found which gives that particular woman the most exquisite pleasure. Some common techniques are: *Inserting one or more fingers into the vagina to stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. * Stroking the clitoris and / or massaging the breasts. * In the bathtub or shower, using warm running water to stimulate the clitoris. * Lying face down and straddling a pillow (or something similar) and rubbing the vulva and clitoris against it. * Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the genitals. * Some women can orgasm by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the pelvic or leg muscles, which creates pressure and enhances blood flow to the genitals. Techniques, Sexual Response & Multiple Orgasms From the website: 'Women commonly masturbate by rubbing or applying pressure to the clitoris, mons, lips of the vagina, or some combination of these areas. The methods by which they do this varies greatly. Fingers or other devices may be used to rub the shaft of the clitoris in an up-and-down motion on either or both sides, or the shaft may be rubbed in a circular fashion. The vaginal lips may be gently pulled; this movement of the inner lips causes the loose skin covering the clitoris to move back and forth, creating a pleasurable sensation. Because the glans of the clitoris is highly sensitive, prolonged stimulation usually becomes irritating, and thus it is not often used as the focus of masturbation. Relatively few women (some sexologists estimate about 20%) insert anything into their vaginas while masturbating. Those who do usually insert just barely into the opening. However, some women completely insert fingers, dildos, vibrators, and other objects, such as bananas and cucumbers, during masturbation. All these methods may involve the use of various kinds of lubricants, and many women stimulate their breasts while stimulating their genitals. Some women use washcloths, clothing, pillows, furs, silks, or other such devices to aid their stimulation. Most women prefer lying on their backs, but some prefer standing or sitting. While standing or sitting, a woman may rub against certain objects, such as doorknobs, dresser drawer pulls, the edge of chairs, or bedposts. The woman may cross her legs and increase the pressure on her genitals by contracting her lower abdominal, gluteal, and thigh muscles. Water massages may be used. Some women derive sexual stimulation while riding a bicycle or a horse, activities that were at one time forbidden to women for that very reason. Female sexual response to masturbation is about the same as for males. Some women have reported orgasm 30 seconds from the start of self-stimulation, while the usual time is a little less than four minutes. Because of a woman's ability to have multiple orgasms, she may maintain her threshold of orgasm far longer than a man. ... When mutual masturbation is employed during intercourse, it may greatly enhance sexual response; some women report that they receive more intense pleasure from masturbation either by themselves or by their partner than they do from coitus, especially if their partner is a male who has only slight potency. This is because the clitoris receives little direct stimulation during pelvic thrusting in the missionary position.'



Below you will find summaries of articles & websites on Sexual Fetish & Fantasy, i.e. on creativity, the mind & sex, fantasy vs realism, sexual morality, evolution and human sexuality, bestiality, incest, rape, violence, bukkake, bdsm, bondage, spanking, school girl, cheerleader, secretary, milf, smoking, panties, high heels & foot fetish, cartoon pornography, latex, rubber & leather fetish clothing etc.
Obviously 'fetish' gets relatively few searches per day compared to specific fetishes e.g. 'milf' 150,000, 'hentai' 90,000, 'beastiality' 45,000, 'lingerie' 30,000, 'bondage' 20,000, 'bukkake' 15,000.

The top ten related searches for fetish are;
fetish (8,000), foot fetish (5,500), smoking fetish (2,000), medical fetish (1,600), fetish sex (1,150), fetishes (1,000), feet fetish (900), high heel fetish (900), diaper fetish (860), panty fetish (800)

We hope you find the following articles & websites interesting, useful and fun.
Karene Jade Howie

Definition of Sexual Fetish
First described by Sigmund Freud in 1887, sexual fetishism is a form of paraphilia where the object of affection is a specific inanimate object. 

A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a 'foot fetish'. That is called a partialism. This is when a part of the body is an extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe though, could be a fetish.

A fetish is when a person is sexually aroused by a specific object or objects and is generally unable to achieve sexual satisfaction without that object being present.

What makes a fetish 'fetishism' by definition is that it interferes with your life. It's not just something you like to do, but something you have to do. In other words, there is no other way to have an orgasm except with a shoe, bra or panties present, or whatever that person is into.


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