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Parenting Styles

Started by PuddyGirl. Last reply by Erica Jan 4, 2012. 2 Replies

 Find Your Style Of ParentingThere are many ideas about how to rear children. Some parents adopt the ideas their own parents used. Others get advice from friends. Some read books about…Continue

Report: Lesbian Parents Make Good Parents

Started by Samantha Nov 11, 2010. 0 Replies

LOS ANGELES -- A study released on Wednesday may dispel the notion that lesbians don't make good parents.The study, conducted by the Williams Institute, a research center on sexual orientation law…Continue

"Choosing Children" showcases pioneering lesbian families

Started by Erica Aug 30, 2010. 0 Replies

"Choosing Children" showcases pioneering lesbian familiesby Dana Rudolphcontributing writerMonday Aug 30, 2010Debra Chasnoff and Kim Klausner, directors of "Choosing Children," in the editing room in…Continue

Judge overturns Calif. gay marriage ban

Started by Erica. Last reply by PuddyGirl Aug 4, 2010. 1 Reply

Visit msnbc.com for breaking news, world news, and news about…Continue

Childrens Self-Esteem

Started by PuddyGirl. Last reply by Charmed Aug 4, 2010. 1 Reply

Self-esteem can be defined as how people feel about themselves. Children's levels of self-esteem are evident in their behavior and attitudes. If children feel good about themselves, these good…Continue

Single Gay Parents

Started by Alissa. Last reply by Mary Apr 14, 2010. 4 Replies

I'm a mama. I love my daughter absolutely and without question, but I am sometimes frustrated at the lack of women willing to get involved with someone who has a child. I can't even get casual dates.…Continue

Tags: frustrated, lesbian, single

The Realities of Day Care - National Institute of Child Health and Human Development Study

Started by PuddyGirl. Last reply by Michelle F. Mar 5, 2010. 1 Reply

The NICHD Study of Early Child Care found that using child care does not affect infants' trust in their mothers.Over the past decade, mounting evidence appearing in academic journals had begun to…Continue

Children and Chores: How Much?

Started by PuddyGirl Jan 27, 2010. 0 Replies

 Children and Chores:  How Much?September 29, 2008 By Kathy McManus Comments (126)A new study has identified an emerging domestic…Continue

Bad Parenting - How to Get Over Your Parenting Mistakes and Move On

Started by PuddyGirl Jan 27, 2010. 0 Replies

Everyone is guilty of bad parenting at one time or another. Perhaps you lost your temper when your tween tried to explain why he was late for his curfew. Maybe you accused your tween of smoking or…Continue

Actual Excuse Notes From Parents

Started by PuddyGirl Dec 1, 2009. 0 Replies

Actual Excuse Notes From Parents(Including Original Spelling)List yoursMy son is under a doctor's care and should not take P. E. today. Pleaseexecute him.Please excuse Lisa for being absent. She was…Continue


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Comment by Samantha on February 6, 2016 at 7:33am

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Comment by laurabrown on January 6, 2012 at 6:26pm

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Comment by PuddyGirl on January 4, 2012 at 4:56pm

Teens of Lesbian Moms Well-Adjusted, Happy with Life

By RICK NAUERT PHD Senior News Editor Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on January 4, 2012

Teens of Lesbian Moms Well-Adjusted, Happy with Life Teenage children of lesbian mothers report their quality of life is every bit as good as teens with heterosexual parents, reports a new study.

The finding speaks to concerns that the children may experience adjustment problems related to prejudice or discrimination.

In the study, 78 U.S. adolescents with lesbian mothers — 39 girls and 39 boys, average age 17 — completed an online survey regarding quality of life. The teens were drawn from a long-term follow-up study of lesbian mothers, initially enrolled when they were pregnant or planning to become pregnant via sperm donation.

Researchers say teenaged children of lesbian mothers rated their quality of life similar to that of teens with heterosexual parents.

For example, average agreement with the statement, “I feel I am getting along with my parents/guardians” was about 8 on a 10-point scale in both groups of teens. For the statement, “I look forward to the future,” the average score was about 9.

Quality of life scores were unaffected by whether the teens knew the identity of the sperm donor or by whether the mother was still in a relationship with the woman who was her partner at the time of the child’s birth.

About 40 percent of teens reported some kind of unfair treatment related to having a lesbian parent—being teased or ridiculed, being stereotyped, or being excluded from activities. Nevertheless, the stigmatization did not affect the quality-of-life scores, suggesting resilience among these teens.

Researchers say this study complements other contemporary studies that show children of gay or lesbian parents have normal psychological adjustment.

“Adolescent offspring in planned lesbian families do not show differences in quality of life when compared with adolescents reared in heterosexual families,” said research leader Loes van Gelderen, M.Sc., of the University of Amsterdam.

The study is published in the Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics.

Most studies of this issue have looked at younger children, whereas adolescents may have a “keener awareness” that their parents’ sexual orientation puts them in a minority group, say the researchers.

Furthermore, most previous studies have focused on problem behaviors, rather than quality-of-life factors associated with good psychological adjustment.

“Adolescents living with lesbian parents function as well as, or sometimes better than, those reared by opposite-sex parents,” van Gelderen and coauthors write.

The study showing evidence of good adjustment is an important addition to a growing body of research showing no difference in adjustment difficulties, such as depression, anxiety, and disruptive behaviors.

Adjustment is good despite high rates of teasing and other forms of stigmatization, which has previously been linked to behavior problems. Classmates were most often mentioned as the source of teasing or ridicule, “suggesting a need for schools to educate students in the appreciation of diversity and to enforce a zero-tolerance policy on bullying and stigmatization,” the researchers said. “Such changes to the educational system would benefit youths from all family types.”

Comment by Erica on September 12, 2010 at 6:02am
Comment by Angela on August 4, 2010 at 9:16pm

Though I don't have children,myself wife does have a one daughter.
Want explain, i call her my wife and so does she, call me her wife to.
We really love the equality within our life. She was formerly married, and can't divorce in her country, or ever return. But, our daughter we now have is 13, well adjusted doing well here.

Comment by PuddyGirl on July 16, 2010 at 2:06am

Comment by Mary on May 5, 2010 at 3:10pm
Hi any PA moms here? I have 3 sons, two are grown, 23 and 21 and I have a 7 year old. I am loving being a mom late in life.
Comment by PuddyGirl on April 24, 2010 at 9:45pm
It's possible to fall in love online...we are proof of thatPosted by Brandy&Tarena on April 24, 2010 at 7:48pm in Points Of View (Change)
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We first met here on August 12th 2009, while posting in the parenting group. At that time, we were only posting comments to one another there, and that's how it all began. Then the chatting, texting...and the wonderful phone calls that lasted for hours, and hours on end, sometimes even days! We then decided to meet in person, so I (Brandy) went to Ohio first, and what a BEAUTIFUL day that was.,one we will never forget, and OH the connection that was simply amazing for the two of us. Which by the way is when our profile picture was taken. Then in November, we had the luxury of being together in Michigan, for 10 beautiful days. Having to say good bye to one another was brutal. We struggled with the separation for three excruciating months. The only thing that kept us going were the phone calls that ended only when one of us fell asleep. We were also fortunate enough to talk via Skype, but that made it more difficult. We could see each other, but not being able to touch broke our hearts. Finally, enough was enough, we needed each other too much. So on Valentine's Day, our lives began as one. These last 3 months have been better than we could've imagined, and each day our love grows stronger. We are very grateful for the existance of PuddyGirl, because without it we may never have met. Now almost a year later we are planning to be married in the very near future....So THANK YOU for making this possible.
Comment by Cassandra on March 9, 2010 at 12:20am
Any Oregon moms on here? :)
Comment by Angie on February 27, 2010 at 1:03pm


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Etymology / Definition of Masturbation The word masturbation is derived from the Greek word mezea ('penises') and the Latin verb masturbare ('to defile by hand or to disturb by hand'). Masturbation can be defined as deliberate self stimulation of ones genitals. As the etymology of the word suggests, hands are generally used to arouse the sexual organs which may result in orgasm. Men may fondle or stroke their penis with their hand or touch other erroneous zones (like the scrotum or anus). Women often rub the vulva, or gently stroke the clitoris and the minor lips (labia minora). Some women simultaneously play with the nipples of their breasts. Instead of using their hands, both males and females may also rub their genitals against some object, such as a pillow. Some females can reach orgasm by riding a bicycle or a horse. Masturbation commonly refers to sexual activities done alone (autoeroticism), but can be a sexual act between people. This is referred to as mutual masturbation, where one person stimulates their own genitals or their partners. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic. visit ifeelmyself.com


There are many special masturbation aids on the market. The most common of these is the artificial penis, also known as a dildo (from the Italian diletto - "delight"). Dildos can be made of wood, rubber, plastic or glass. Vibrators are also popular sex toys. They are like dildos, but battery powered or electric. Great for masturbation as well as partner sex play. Babeland have a great selection of sex toys. Watching pornography, reading erotica or cultivating sexual fantasies are common aids to masturbate. Humans are not the only animals to masturbate. Many other mammals have been known to masturbate in the wild and in captivity. Female Masturbation Techniques There are many different techniques women may employ to masturbate. Through experimentation, a personal preference may be found which gives that particular woman the most exquisite pleasure. Some common techniques are: *Inserting one or more fingers into the vagina to stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. * Stroking the clitoris and / or massaging the breasts. * In the bathtub or shower, using warm running water to stimulate the clitoris. * Lying face down and straddling a pillow (or something similar) and rubbing the vulva and clitoris against it. * Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the genitals. * Some women can orgasm by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the pelvic or leg muscles, which creates pressure and enhances blood flow to the genitals. Techniques, Sexual Response & Multiple Orgasms From the website: 'Women commonly masturbate by rubbing or applying pressure to the clitoris, mons, lips of the vagina, or some combination of these areas. The methods by which they do this varies greatly. Fingers or other devices may be used to rub the shaft of the clitoris in an up-and-down motion on either or both sides, or the shaft may be rubbed in a circular fashion. The vaginal lips may be gently pulled; this movement of the inner lips causes the loose skin covering the clitoris to move back and forth, creating a pleasurable sensation. Because the glans of the clitoris is highly sensitive, prolonged stimulation usually becomes irritating, and thus it is not often used as the focus of masturbation. Relatively few women (some sexologists estimate about 20%) insert anything into their vaginas while masturbating. Those who do usually insert just barely into the opening. However, some women completely insert fingers, dildos, vibrators, and other objects, such as bananas and cucumbers, during masturbation. All these methods may involve the use of various kinds of lubricants, and many women stimulate their breasts while stimulating their genitals. Some women use washcloths, clothing, pillows, furs, silks, or other such devices to aid their stimulation. Most women prefer lying on their backs, but some prefer standing or sitting. While standing or sitting, a woman may rub against certain objects, such as doorknobs, dresser drawer pulls, the edge of chairs, or bedposts. The woman may cross her legs and increase the pressure on her genitals by contracting her lower abdominal, gluteal, and thigh muscles. Water massages may be used. Some women derive sexual stimulation while riding a bicycle or a horse, activities that were at one time forbidden to women for that very reason. Female sexual response to masturbation is about the same as for males. Some women have reported orgasm 30 seconds from the start of self-stimulation, while the usual time is a little less than four minutes. Because of a woman's ability to have multiple orgasms, she may maintain her threshold of orgasm far longer than a man. ... When mutual masturbation is employed during intercourse, it may greatly enhance sexual response; some women report that they receive more intense pleasure from masturbation either by themselves or by their partner than they do from coitus, especially if their partner is a male who has only slight potency. This is because the clitoris receives little direct stimulation during pelvic thrusting in the missionary position.'



Below you will find summaries of articles & websites on Sexual Fetish & Fantasy, i.e. on creativity, the mind & sex, fantasy vs realism, sexual morality, evolution and human sexuality, bestiality, incest, rape, violence, bukkake, bdsm, bondage, spanking, school girl, cheerleader, secretary, milf, smoking, panties, high heels & foot fetish, cartoon pornography, latex, rubber & leather fetish clothing etc.
Obviously 'fetish' gets relatively few searches per day compared to specific fetishes e.g. 'milf' 150,000, 'hentai' 90,000, 'beastiality' 45,000, 'lingerie' 30,000, 'bondage' 20,000, 'bukkake' 15,000.

The top ten related searches for fetish are;
fetish (8,000), foot fetish (5,500), smoking fetish (2,000), medical fetish (1,600), fetish sex (1,150), fetishes (1,000), feet fetish (900), high heel fetish (900), diaper fetish (860), panty fetish (800)

We hope you find the following articles & websites interesting, useful and fun.
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Definition of Sexual Fetish
First described by Sigmund Freud in 1887, sexual fetishism is a form of paraphilia where the object of affection is a specific inanimate object. 

A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a 'foot fetish'. That is called a partialism. This is when a part of the body is an extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe though, could be a fetish.

A fetish is when a person is sexually aroused by a specific object or objects and is generally unable to achieve sexual satisfaction without that object being present.

What makes a fetish 'fetishism' by definition is that it interferes with your life. It's not just something you like to do, but something you have to do. In other words, there is no other way to have an orgasm except with a shoe, bra or panties present, or whatever that person is into.


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