October 2009 Blog Posts (6)

melissa 27 oct

wow weathers really been nasty here lately, Was gunna go for a naked run thru the park but it got really nasty and cold so had to stick with a butt naked sit in the hot tub, that was relaxing.

Ben really busy with my classes so haven't been on for a bit but at least all the bills are payed(thx mom)so i dont have to worry, Even have a petty cash account(8k) for food and clothes and such. so what more could a girl want . got almost every adult toy u can think of(thx to mom) well i need to… Continue

Added by melissa jolynn varner on October 27, 2009 at 3:00pm — 1 Comment

melissa 17 oct 09

Well its 7 am,today was my first morning waking up with out my mom telling me to wake up and take the dog out, As it was Sebastian woke me up licking my face, So i got up and let him out. It was a beautiful morning not to cold out ,...ohhh btw Sebastian is a great Dane ,and yes im into k9, i wont tell u what all he was licking to wake me up but i did wake up in a good mood , expecting something to happen , but after letting "seb" out to use the bushes he took off exploring so all that was out,… Continue

Added by melissa jolynn varner on October 17, 2009 at 11:34am — No Comments

my own place now

after 8 months of finalizing her packing my mom is now living in parma,Italy. so now Ive go the beach house in mandeville all to myself. i have 23 different sex toys and am enjoying the fun of no parents ......hmmmm ok sorry little family history is in order i guess ...lets see, ok i was born in new,Orleans my dad died when i was 3and my mom and i moved over to mandeville and bought a beach house my mom works for a consulting company and is always gone flying overseas while i stay home ..it… Continue

Added by melissa jolynn varner on October 16, 2009 at 4:01pm — No Comments

A short Halloween Story

(I hope you all enjoy this one)

For the past two years I have seen the same red headed beautiful stranger at the same time every day. She eaves her apartment five thirty five in the morning, the same time I always leave for work. We never speak to each other when we see one another we just give polite smile. Than around six thirty we cross paths again except she has a male companion with her. She doesn’t even see me when she is with him and I’m to shy to even look in her… Continue

Added by Jade Galbiso on October 4, 2009 at 4:02pm — 2 Comments


Into the woods we fled

fled from the world...

Running under the willow trees

Leading her hand, our hidden secret unfolds

Away from the street lights

away from the roads,

Just peace in the forest... and the english winter snow

The pond frozen over, the dear running past

for us it seemed like a fantasy world

a world that will always last

Looking down on Weymouth from lodmoor hill

sitting in the snow holding eachother.. kept away the… Continue

Added by Amanda Jane on October 2, 2009 at 9:16pm — 1 Comment

Help! Im at a loss.....

Im new to this group, and im aprehensive....A few months ago my girlfriend of a year and I ended our relationship...if you could call it a relationship. Ive only seriously dated 2 girls in my life, my ex before I was with for 4 years, but I can say Im the one that screwed that up. Anyway, the relationship I just got of was not a good one and I can say my trust in people is almost non existent. I decided it was best to take time for myself because I didnt have much time in between relationships.… Continue

Added by Jessica on October 1, 2009 at 3:03pm — 1 Comment

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Etymology / Definition of Masturbation The word masturbation is derived from the Greek word mezea ('penises') and the Latin verb masturbare ('to defile by hand or to disturb by hand'). Masturbation can be defined as deliberate self stimulation of ones genitals. As the etymology of the word suggests, hands are generally used to arouse the sexual organs which may result in orgasm. Men may fondle or stroke their penis with their hand or touch other erroneous zones (like the scrotum or anus). Women often rub the vulva, or gently stroke the clitoris and the minor lips (labia minora). Some women simultaneously play with the nipples of their breasts. Instead of using their hands, both males and females may also rub their genitals against some object, such as a pillow. Some females can reach orgasm by riding a bicycle or a horse. Masturbation commonly refers to sexual activities done alone (autoeroticism), but can be a sexual act between people. This is referred to as mutual masturbation, where one person stimulates their own genitals or their partners. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic. visit ifeelmyself.com


There are many special masturbation aids on the market. The most common of these is the artificial penis, also known as a dildo (from the Italian diletto - "delight"). Dildos can be made of wood, rubber, plastic or glass. Vibrators are also popular sex toys. They are like dildos, but battery powered or electric. Great for masturbation as well as partner sex play. Babeland have a great selection of sex toys. Watching pornography, reading erotica or cultivating sexual fantasies are common aids to masturbate. Humans are not the only animals to masturbate. Many other mammals have been known to masturbate in the wild and in captivity. Female Masturbation Techniques There are many different techniques women may employ to masturbate. Through experimentation, a personal preference may be found which gives that particular woman the most exquisite pleasure. Some common techniques are: *Inserting one or more fingers into the vagina to stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. * Stroking the clitoris and / or massaging the breasts. * In the bathtub or shower, using warm running water to stimulate the clitoris. * Lying face down and straddling a pillow (or something similar) and rubbing the vulva and clitoris against it. * Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the genitals. * Some women can orgasm by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the pelvic or leg muscles, which creates pressure and enhances blood flow to the genitals. Techniques, Sexual Response & Multiple Orgasms From the website: 'Women commonly masturbate by rubbing or applying pressure to the clitoris, mons, lips of the vagina, or some combination of these areas. The methods by which they do this varies greatly. Fingers or other devices may be used to rub the shaft of the clitoris in an up-and-down motion on either or both sides, or the shaft may be rubbed in a circular fashion. The vaginal lips may be gently pulled; this movement of the inner lips causes the loose skin covering the clitoris to move back and forth, creating a pleasurable sensation. Because the glans of the clitoris is highly sensitive, prolonged stimulation usually becomes irritating, and thus it is not often used as the focus of masturbation. Relatively few women (some sexologists estimate about 20%) insert anything into their vaginas while masturbating. Those who do usually insert just barely into the opening. However, some women completely insert fingers, dildos, vibrators, and other objects, such as bananas and cucumbers, during masturbation. All these methods may involve the use of various kinds of lubricants, and many women stimulate their breasts while stimulating their genitals. Some women use washcloths, clothing, pillows, furs, silks, or other such devices to aid their stimulation. Most women prefer lying on their backs, but some prefer standing or sitting. While standing or sitting, a woman may rub against certain objects, such as doorknobs, dresser drawer pulls, the edge of chairs, or bedposts. The woman may cross her legs and increase the pressure on her genitals by contracting her lower abdominal, gluteal, and thigh muscles. Water massages may be used. Some women derive sexual stimulation while riding a bicycle or a horse, activities that were at one time forbidden to women for that very reason. Female sexual response to masturbation is about the same as for males. Some women have reported orgasm 30 seconds from the start of self-stimulation, while the usual time is a little less than four minutes. Because of a woman's ability to have multiple orgasms, she may maintain her threshold of orgasm far longer than a man. ... When mutual masturbation is employed during intercourse, it may greatly enhance sexual response; some women report that they receive more intense pleasure from masturbation either by themselves or by their partner than they do from coitus, especially if their partner is a male who has only slight potency. This is because the clitoris receives little direct stimulation during pelvic thrusting in the missionary position.'



Below you will find summaries of articles & websites on Sexual Fetish & Fantasy, i.e. on creativity, the mind & sex, fantasy vs realism, sexual morality, evolution and human sexuality, bestiality, incest, rape, violence, bukkake, bdsm, bondage, spanking, school girl, cheerleader, secretary, milf, smoking, panties, high heels & foot fetish, cartoon pornography, latex, rubber & leather fetish clothing etc.
Obviously 'fetish' gets relatively few searches per day compared to specific fetishes e.g. 'milf' 150,000, 'hentai' 90,000, 'beastiality' 45,000, 'lingerie' 30,000, 'bondage' 20,000, 'bukkake' 15,000.

The top ten related searches for fetish are;
fetish (8,000), foot fetish (5,500), smoking fetish (2,000), medical fetish (1,600), fetish sex (1,150), fetishes (1,000), feet fetish (900), high heel fetish (900), diaper fetish (860), panty fetish (800)

We hope you find the following articles & websites interesting, useful and fun.
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Definition of Sexual Fetish
First described by Sigmund Freud in 1887, sexual fetishism is a form of paraphilia where the object of affection is a specific inanimate object. 

A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a 'foot fetish'. That is called a partialism. This is when a part of the body is an extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe though, could be a fetish.

A fetish is when a person is sexually aroused by a specific object or objects and is generally unable to achieve sexual satisfaction without that object being present.

What makes a fetish 'fetishism' by definition is that it interferes with your life. It's not just something you like to do, but something you have to do. In other words, there is no other way to have an orgasm except with a shoe, bra or panties present, or whatever that person is into.


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