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New Here

Hi. I'm New. I'm in GA and love chatting. I'm a writer working on the conclusion to my first book, Hidden Desires: Revealed. Its a lesbian novel and most of it is based on my life, with some fiction. I work at The Boys and Girls Club part-time. The rest of the time I'm being grandma to a 2 1/2 yr old or writing. I'm looking for someone down to earth and loveable as well as loving. Friends are good too though. I've been single for about 4 years. I'm lonely and looking. I want something special… Continue

Added by Renee Black on May 9, 2016 at 11:06pm — No Comments

Free To Be Me





As you read this, keep in mind that Kelly is twenty-five years younger than myself.


Well, folks, it's been a while since I last wrote anything here. Over two years, about the same time that I reconciled with my ex-fiancee, Kelly. So much has happened since then. I became sick with Hepatitis C, was hospitalized for E-Coli,…


Added by Sissy on September 14, 2012 at 12:30pm — 26 Comments

Wow it has been a while since I have been here, but I am back.

I went away for a while to work on me and really figure things out.  So I guess for now I have, but with out a doubt something will change and what I have figured out will change...But hey that is life.


Lets see what can I update everyone on...


I am getting married, well in March of 2012.  To the same man that I have talked about before.  Which is great because I don't have to explain myself or hide who I am.


I have had a couple of more…


Added by Trina on June 21, 2011 at 12:38pm — 1 Comment

Some beliefs and thoughts to live by…

Some beliefs and thoughts I live by…

-To truly understand integrity, is not to change the world around you, but to know you are doing right even if the world stumbles around you.

-Clichés only become so because they are worth repeating for their easy truth.

-Worthy and memorable moments in our lives do not come about because they are planned, they will be moments of opportunities which need to be embraced when they…

Added by Tiffany Amber Walters on September 10, 2010 at 9:23am — 2 Comments

loving someone

sometimes i don't think people really understand what loving someone is all about. but remember to love the "whole" person especially when you are both being intimate with one another. just remember what i always say and it will work; be completely intimate with the other person's body, soul, mind and spirit and you will be fulfilled. i think its a part of the human condition that we have misplaced for the time being.

Added by VinJan Novacek on April 29, 2011 at 1:18am — 3 Comments

Random thought....

She gives me a chance to think about how wonderful my life has been.

Every since she became a part of it...... I have chance to say some things that I

don't say often enough-- I love you.... I'm proud of you...and I'm so happy we're

together because she makes me happy everyday.

This WAS my thought process for the last 6 months. Now, I'm not sure how,why,where,and what is going on between us. We still say "the" I love you's. We still text,talk, write,but…


Added by BiVixen09 on January 6, 2012 at 7:58pm — 10 Comments


Bette Callison and Smooth Blue. A sudden, intense, rush of sexual excitement coursed through me, as I read 'the name' on the entertainment calendar that my boss had asked me to post at the hostess station, at the front of the club. Just reading her name gave me butterflies! I posted the calendar on the wall with tape, and then stepped back to make sure that it hung straight.

We had great performers. Lightnin' Hopkins, John Lee Hooker, Taj Mahal, Joey… Continue

Added by Angie on November 16, 2010 at 11:30pm — 7 Comments

The Power of Puddy Girl

Hi Ladies

I Know we are all members here, and enjoy being a members right?

If not we would not be here. But, I come realize the hidden meaning of being a member.

The is a Power to being here, that maybe none you have realized. Angie_Iv hit on it once

in a expose' she was answer once. She was talking about and explaining along with me about differences trans an gender sisters go threw differently from main stream lesbians, and she had…


Added by Angela on October 14, 2011 at 10:56am — 2 Comments

I wish I was more

I am happy with who I am, but..........
I wish I was prettier
I wish I was smarter
I wish I was sexier
I wish someone beautiful would sweep me off my feet
I wish I didn't believe in fairy tails
I know true happiness is out there, I just wish I could find it
I wish I had the courage to tell people...........
I wish I could say the right thing at the right time
I am quite comfortable and happy with who I…

Added by Janet Bailey on February 24, 2010 at 4:51pm — 2 Comments

Kelli And Gwen

Gwen stood at the sink washing out a dirty coffee cup. The sun poured through the window giving her kitchen a warm glow. Sitting at the kitchen table sipping coffee was Gwen's next door neighbor and confidant Kelli. Kelli was already dressed for work but, as she was leaving she got a call that her boss was entertaining clients with a game of golf and she need not come to work. That was fine for Kelli who went next door to see what her friend Gwen was up to. Kelli discovered her friend was still… Continue

Added by SANDI on January 26, 2010 at 3:08am — 3 Comments

We Can Forget We Exist Together ☼

A cold breeze slides in through the window screen…

It almost smells like Jersey if I close my eyes.

Can I have my voice back, darling?

My heart is beginning to hurt.

We’re getting bored, and you’re getting bolder…

We can’t behave, and I’m getting colder……


Added by Maria C. Knopka on June 17, 2010 at 9:46pm — No Comments

Practice Makes Perfect. :P

Practice Makes Perfect

Written By: Kendall Rae (meee) :))

I very stealthily snuck out of the bed that my best friend, hot rock star Casey Carnell, was sleeping in and padded across my bedroom to the computer. I had been waiting for Casey to fall asleep for HOURS and she was finally passed out on my queen sized bed. I pulled up the internet browser and typed in what I was searching for in the box. I searched through the myriad of titles in the search…


Added by Kendall Rae on May 3, 2012 at 12:53am — 3 Comments

Hi Everyone Good News I Want Thank YOU all.

Thank you to all my online family here for praying for me.All prayers alive an well.Guess what so am i too thanks to you all.

I am back home in my beloved Netherlands. So cold here -1 to -3.Texas cold to on an off. Interesting place Texas one day cold maybe two three then four five warm .I never knew how dress, but was able lay on beach in so pretty Places. I love beaches as everyone knows.

Any way i am recovered from stints that were put in. But, also I…


Added by Angela on February 12, 2012 at 4:25pm — 2 Comments

just what I don't need...♥

Touch me.…

Added by Maria C. Knopka on May 13, 2010 at 7:30am — 1 Comment

More on how I'm wired (& whom I'd like to meet):

*My kids, (I have 3 - my oldest & youngest are both boys & my middle child is my daughter),are the most important thing that's ever happened to me in my entire life. When you have a child of your own, there is an unspeakable, immeasurable bond that you have like no other & the unconditional love that you feel is so overwelming that it takes your very breath away.

MORE ON HOW I'M WIRED: (Yes, this is quite lengthy but if you truly want to know me, then just… Continue

Added by Tiffany Amber Walters on September 8, 2010 at 8:29pm — 3 Comments

My poem


Lay next to me temptress

Lay close to me,

Whispering in my ear...

Whisper words that i long to hear

Your eyes mesmerizing, looking into mine

Looking into my feelings and thoughts

That have grown for you over time...

Your beautiful wavy hair drapes over my face

as you lean over me..keeping me still, in place

slowly caressing your smooth skin

tracing your waistline..lowerback, while you move closer… Continue

Added by Amanda Jane on September 10, 2009 at 4:00pm — 7 Comments

If you love somebody let them go and if it comes back to you it means so much more!

Well, I'm putting my trust in this statement so to speak. After 7-months she decides she needs to work on herself, wants to maintain her freedom, and wants to date other people. Finally, after months of thinking I could love her through the pain of her past....I simply decided to let her go. Can't say I didn't see it coming I always knew but somehow thought things would work out. I can't say she didn't love me, I know she does but I guess sometimes love just isn't enough. I blame for myself…


Added by Shauntae on August 14, 2011 at 11:36am — 1 Comment

would u rather wait to have sex??

would u rather wait to have sex??

what would u do ppl? talk to ur girl come on now dont be shy..lol haha the reason i would wait is cus i would like to get to know the person first and wait til the time is right..yes not gettin any does suck but its worth it in the end… Continue

Added by rose cox on February 24, 2011 at 3:43pm — No Comments

Stuck In A Moment

Stuck In a Moment…


Added by Kendall Rae on March 23, 2010 at 7:35pm — No Comments

Etymology / Definition of Masturbation The word masturbation is derived from the Greek word mezea ('penises') and the Latin verb masturbare ('to defile by hand or to disturb by hand'). Masturbation can be defined as deliberate self stimulation of ones genitals. As the etymology of the word suggests, hands are generally used to arouse the sexual organs which may result in orgasm. Men may fondle or stroke their penis with their hand or touch other erroneous zones (like the scrotum or anus). Women often rub the vulva, or gently stroke the clitoris and the minor lips (labia minora). Some women simultaneously play with the nipples of their breasts. Instead of using their hands, both males and females may also rub their genitals against some object, such as a pillow. Some females can reach orgasm by riding a bicycle or a horse. Masturbation commonly refers to sexual activities done alone (autoeroticism), but can be a sexual act between people. This is referred to as mutual masturbation, where one person stimulates their own genitals or their partners. Many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic. visit ifeelmyself.com


There are many special masturbation aids on the market. The most common of these is the artificial penis, also known as a dildo (from the Italian diletto - "delight"). Dildos can be made of wood, rubber, plastic or glass. Vibrators are also popular sex toys. They are like dildos, but battery powered or electric. Great for masturbation as well as partner sex play. Babeland have a great selection of sex toys. Watching pornography, reading erotica or cultivating sexual fantasies are common aids to masturbate. Humans are not the only animals to masturbate. Many other mammals have been known to masturbate in the wild and in captivity. Female Masturbation Techniques There are many different techniques women may employ to masturbate. Through experimentation, a personal preference may be found which gives that particular woman the most exquisite pleasure. Some common techniques are: *Inserting one or more fingers into the vagina to stroke the frontal wall of the vagina where the g-spot is located. * Stroking the clitoris and / or massaging the breasts. * In the bathtub or shower, using warm running water to stimulate the clitoris. * Lying face down and straddling a pillow (or something similar) and rubbing the vulva and clitoris against it. * Standing up, the corner of an item of furniture, or even a washing machine, can be used to stimulate the genitals. * Some women can orgasm by crossing their legs tightly and clenching the pelvic or leg muscles, which creates pressure and enhances blood flow to the genitals. Techniques, Sexual Response & Multiple Orgasms From the website: 'Women commonly masturbate by rubbing or applying pressure to the clitoris, mons, lips of the vagina, or some combination of these areas. The methods by which they do this varies greatly. Fingers or other devices may be used to rub the shaft of the clitoris in an up-and-down motion on either or both sides, or the shaft may be rubbed in a circular fashion. The vaginal lips may be gently pulled; this movement of the inner lips causes the loose skin covering the clitoris to move back and forth, creating a pleasurable sensation. Because the glans of the clitoris is highly sensitive, prolonged stimulation usually becomes irritating, and thus it is not often used as the focus of masturbation. Relatively few women (some sexologists estimate about 20%) insert anything into their vaginas while masturbating. Those who do usually insert just barely into the opening. However, some women completely insert fingers, dildos, vibrators, and other objects, such as bananas and cucumbers, during masturbation. All these methods may involve the use of various kinds of lubricants, and many women stimulate their breasts while stimulating their genitals. Some women use washcloths, clothing, pillows, furs, silks, or other such devices to aid their stimulation. Most women prefer lying on their backs, but some prefer standing or sitting. While standing or sitting, a woman may rub against certain objects, such as doorknobs, dresser drawer pulls, the edge of chairs, or bedposts. The woman may cross her legs and increase the pressure on her genitals by contracting her lower abdominal, gluteal, and thigh muscles. Water massages may be used. Some women derive sexual stimulation while riding a bicycle or a horse, activities that were at one time forbidden to women for that very reason. Female sexual response to masturbation is about the same as for males. Some women have reported orgasm 30 seconds from the start of self-stimulation, while the usual time is a little less than four minutes. Because of a woman's ability to have multiple orgasms, she may maintain her threshold of orgasm far longer than a man. ... When mutual masturbation is employed during intercourse, it may greatly enhance sexual response; some women report that they receive more intense pleasure from masturbation either by themselves or by their partner than they do from coitus, especially if their partner is a male who has only slight potency. This is because the clitoris receives little direct stimulation during pelvic thrusting in the missionary position.'



Below you will find summaries of articles & websites on Sexual Fetish & Fantasy, i.e. on creativity, the mind & sex, fantasy vs realism, sexual morality, evolution and human sexuality, bestiality, incest, rape, violence, bukkake, bdsm, bondage, spanking, school girl, cheerleader, secretary, milf, smoking, panties, high heels & foot fetish, cartoon pornography, latex, rubber & leather fetish clothing etc.
Obviously 'fetish' gets relatively few searches per day compared to specific fetishes e.g. 'milf' 150,000, 'hentai' 90,000, 'beastiality' 45,000, 'lingerie' 30,000, 'bondage' 20,000, 'bukkake' 15,000.

The top ten related searches for fetish are;
fetish (8,000), foot fetish (5,500), smoking fetish (2,000), medical fetish (1,600), fetish sex (1,150), fetishes (1,000), feet fetish (900), high heel fetish (900), diaper fetish (860), panty fetish (800)

We hope you find the following articles & websites interesting, useful and fun.
Karene Jade Howie

Definition of Sexual Fetish
First described by Sigmund Freud in 1887, sexual fetishism is a form of paraphilia where the object of affection is a specific inanimate object. 

A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a 'foot fetish'. That is called a partialism. This is when a part of the body is an extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe though, could be a fetish.

A fetish is when a person is sexually aroused by a specific object or objects and is generally unable to achieve sexual satisfaction without that object being present.

What makes a fetish 'fetishism' by definition is that it interferes with your life. It's not just something you like to do, but something you have to do. In other words, there is no other way to have an orgasm except with a shoe, bra or panties present, or whatever that person is into.


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