I have been asked alot about my relationship with my new wife.Usually questions begin with she was straight? How did you ever becaome married to a former straight lady?
So here is my answer to all that :
First she was just my friend for along time and she married and born in Phillipines .
Her husband began treating her badly very bad. He is salesman and goes away long time periods
and stays away.My former wife was ill very ill with cancer, and dying. She knew I was caring for her.
SHe saw me doing all that and slowly we came to be better friends after my wife died. She told me and i was
shocked when she told me she had feeling for me. She still married at that time to her husband. I did not think
i just reacted to her words and asked her would you marry me? But wait I said i want you free first and then
want you be mine. She did not think she reacted also and said yes to me.I never goten over it ...it was very deep moment for me. One i cherish always. I did not have words just was so excited and happy all at once.We went to my place and made love all night long. first time we ever made love together. It was explosion of us uniting.
Now this is for those young ones here who maybe are wanting a straight women or lover of their own.
I came by this as accident searching few months ago.I was wanting find lesbian doctors.Which I now have.
The article was about, " How to seduce a straight woman "when you are a lesbian.
by jandi on March 28, 2009
I hope this will help younger lesbians here.
How to seduce a straight woman is the most common question faced by lesbians
who fall in love and want to build a relationship with a straight woman.
The desire to seduce a straight woman should come natural and done in a more
subtle way. If the attraction is very strong, the lesbian love can become
irresistible. One can hardly explain its meaning whenever it strikes a lonely heart.
It is hard to resist and hard to control if the dictates of the heart is
pulling you apart.
Most if not all lesbians will do everything in their power just to get the
woman of their dreams. But, unlike men, lesbians strategies are more subtle.
How to seduce a straight woman?
Below are some tips that are proven helpful in seducing a straight woman.
However, be sure to befriend the straight woman first.
You can do so by striking a conversation.
For example, while you are both on board a train or waiting for a bus or train.
The trip or the waiting time could end up both of you exchanging emails or
The rest will be history and then you can start the following:
1. Invite her for dinner. Lesbians mostly invite girls for a night out, dinner or
parties. It is because after dark moments help ignite the will power of lesbians.
2. Watch movie together. The darkness in theaters are proven to be romantic.
It helps lesbians get a better chance at starting an intimate discussion.
If you are a lesbian and you want to take this route,
make sure you are seated beside each other. Strike a conversation by
whispering words in her ear. Stay close to her as you can during the whole
conversation. You don’t want to disturb the other people in the theater anyway.
She might get a hint. If she tries to stay away from you, that’s a bad sign.
However, it could be a good sign if she remains in the same position while you
both are whispering on each others’ ears. While talking try to keep your arm close
to hers and then slowly slide your hands into hers. At this stage,
try to get some idea if your actions are well taken.
If it is, that’s another good sign.
She may be hesitant at first to take your hands but if she does nothing you’re
in for a good first start with her.
3. Invite her home.
Seducing a straight woman is a bit easy if she gets to know you better.
If you are a care giver to someone already allow her see you careing for this
person, better if that person is family memeber.She can see your tender side.
This gives you a good chance for more open concersation.
Inviting her to your home, she will get an even clearer idea of who you truly are.
While at home, you can prepare dinner with her favorite food for her or
better still watch your favorite lesbian movie with her.
She may not like the idea at first but chances are her
curiosity will drive her to finish the whole lesbian movie with you.
This opens door for more conversation with you so, she will have even better
idea of who you are and this is where you can start.
Tell her why you’re showing her the movie and explain your
situation,that you are attracted to her and/or maddly in love with her.
The rest is up to you, but make sure you don’t go overboard or you’ll ruin the
whole conversation. Take it easy and for sure you will get her sympathy.
4. Surprise her with flowers.
Women love flowers.Think of it yourself you like them too Right?
So Surprise her with a buquet of fresh flowers but ...
only after you done a little bit of research first as to what kind
of flowers she likes.
Also a good place to tell her what your favorite flowers are also.
5. Buy her chocolates and other gifts.
Lesbians who really like a person know how and what to give a person.
Do some research about what she likes and dislikes.
This can be questions and answers like whats your favorite gifts?
I tell you mine you tell me yours.
To fulfill your mission you must be very good at what you are doing.
Start with inexpensive gifts as you are still in the application beginning stage.
Besides, if things gets rough on the way then at least it will not be heavy
on your pocket.